Thursday, October 21, 2021

Rejection "Pain"

What happens in the brain when a person is rejected (or ignored) or someone acts like you are not even there? I know it doesn’t feel very good!

Rejection is a term indicating that something is being pushed away or refused. A female animal may refuse to accept and feed her offspring. The body’s immune system may repel an invading pathogenic organism or refuse to accept an organ transplant. Rejection can also be  “social” as when an individual is excluded by a school, church, or other group. The human brain is a relational organ and has a fundamental need to belong to some type of group, making rejection all the more painful. Experiencing rejection can result in a form of stress. Being spurned, unaccepted, shunned, excluded, ostracized, or given the “cold shoulder” can generate feelings of sadness, grief, shame, or a sense of being worthless. It can impact cognition (thinking). Simply being asked to remember a time when the person was rejected can result in that individual scoring significantly lower on subsequent IQ tests.

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