Nolen-Hoeksema,
a pioneer in the study of women’s rumination and depression, is considered the
go-to expert in the field. She describes rumination as a situation in which the
mind goes round and round over negative events in the past, problems in the
present or bad things you’re worried will happen in the future. This inability
to release bad thoughts and memories can get you down. You rehash these events
and analyze them, but you don’t do much of anything to solve the problems or
feel more in control of your situation. These are negative thoughts, and
negative thought breed hopelessness, despair, and low motivation and
self-esteem. When you rehearse negative thoughts over and over, they grow even
more powerful. Stresses seem bigger, and you’re more likely to react in an
intense way, even thinking things are worse than they really are. And, if by
chance, you are vulnerable to depression, you could end up seriously depressed.
More tomorrow.
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