Is the fear of missing out (FOMO), an
example of negative thinking?
I think you just answered your own
question. Having
a sense of being nurtured, affirmed, and acknowledged is a basic human need.
That is not a slam dunk in life, unless you begin doing that for
yourself—important as you are the only person who will be with you for your
entire life. When you learn to accept, value, and affirm yourself, whatever you
receive above that from other is a bonus. You raise your Emotional Intelligence
skills so you have very realistic expectations of what you actually need from
others and what they can give you. You carefully select a few close friendships
that are healthily reciprocal in affirming themselves and others. Within about
the space of three years, studies have shown that you tend to pick up the behaviors
of the 4-5 people with whom you spend the most time. Therefore, select those with
whom you hang—with care. Make sure their behaviors are something you want. More
tomorrow.
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