But you say;
"I come from a long line of depressed ancestors, including immediate
family members." Many of us did. That's no reason to throw up your hands
and wallow in an unhappy mindset, negative feelings, and listless behaviors.
Sonja Lyubomirsky, a positive psychologist at the University of California at
Riverside, and colleagues have been studying sets of twins. The results have
led to the idea of an inborn set point of happiness. Current estimates are that
half of one's happiness set point is inherited, 10 percent relates to your
environmental circumstances, and 40 percent is under your own power to control.
What can you do to up the ante for happiness? Regardless of your
inherited predisposition, gratitude can be honed. Robert Emmons of the
University of California, Davis, and Mike McCullough of the University of Miami
suggest keeping a daily gratitude journal. Just write a few sentences
(long-hand electronic) about something for which you are grateful. Research
participants who did this for just three months reported higher levels of
optimism and fewer visits to physicians. It helped them focus on what they had
rather than what they did not have. Remember the old proverb: If you plan to be thankful for what you'll
get, be thankful for what you already have.
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