Those who did not stay up most
of the night, awakened to learn of perhaps the biggest upset since a Hollywood
actor became president-elect. Each is now confronted with a series of choices,
and the outcome of those personal decisions will impact not only the
individual’s own future, personally and collectively, but also what happens to
upcoming generations and the nation itself. None of us knows how this will play
out. I know that it is what it is and my response will
influence my brain-body health. In the words of Epictetus, 2nd century Greek philosopher: It’s not so much what happens that matters as what you
think about what happens. I would add ‘and how you
choose to respond to what is, because everything starts
in the brain.’ Mine is distressed when humans act out their anger and
frustration by hurting others and destroying property because in the end they
damage themselves and their future. Anyone can complain and act out negatively.
Society doesn’t like that behavior in children—how much less in adults—an
unfortunate role-model for the young in how to approach disappointment and
perceived failure. (Interestingly, the word about town is that this father
might never have thrown his hat into the political ring or continued to pursue
his goal if his daughter had not continually encouraged him to do so, which may
represent female power behind a president.) Individuals will choose either to
follow and replicate the dysfunction that was exhibited (inside and outside of
both camps) or take a higher road. Either choice will impact brain-body health
in differing ways. My brain chooses a response to this unexpected situation by
exhibiting behaviors that reflect high levels of Emotional Intelligence—because
that will impact my own brain-body health positively. More tomorrow.
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