Thursday, October 26, 2017

The Alpha Partner, 3

More questions I’ve received:

“Can an alpha female ever manage being in a relationship when she is usually right and it’s obvious that her partner is making big mistakes?”


(Being right in your own mind is one thing, and, yes, it’s tough when you have a track record of usually being correct. However, your brain has no right to prevent another brain from trying their way or attempting that person to conform to your perspective. Freedom of thought is one of the few freedoms a human being really has—and a brain convinced against its will is of the same opinion still.)


“How can an alpha female partner with someone she loves and then sit back and watch them take a course of action she knows from experience will not work?”


(Every human being has the inalienable right to be unwise and to follow unfortunate courses of action. There will be consequences but an alpha female is not jury and judge. She can make a suggestion but then must be wise and healthy enough to have no agenda about whether or not the other person will take the suggestion. And she can take steps to protect herself if the course of action could negatively impact her financially—often a prenuptial agreement is wise.)

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