Did you know that Connectome studies have identified
more than 100 “connection differences” between male and female brains?
Misunderstood, these differences often lead to frustration, miscommunication,
and even conflict. For example, males often want to “do” relationships
rather than “talk them out.” Two males can spend the day doing an activity
together (e.g., biking, hiking, fishing) and say little, if anything, to each
other verbally. And when they get home, both perceive they had a great day. Females
on the other hand, connect through conversation and just “doing” an activity
without any conversation seems somehow less satisfying. What’s the take away?
If females are with other females, there will likely be a lot of verbal
conversation. When males are with other males, there will likely be very little
verbal conversation. When a male and a female are doing something together, the
male needs to converse more than he would if with another male, while the
female needs to not expect as much conversation as she would have with another
female. Part 2 tomorrow.
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