An internal or external
stimulus triggers an emotion. Your brain tries to make sense of the
physiological changes in your body resulting from the emotion. The brain’s interpretation
creates thoughts and feelings. You become aware of a thought (I feel . .
. I think) and either hang onto it and exhibit a behavior related to that
feeling or thought or you change the thought and the subsequent feeling and behavior.
When you understand that your feelings are connected to what you think about an
event more than by the event itself, you can gain a measure of perspective and
control. You may not be able to alter the event but you can change your
thoughts, and a change in thoughts often can radically alter your feelings as
well as your behaviors—because feelings follow thoughts and actions and
behaviors follow feelings.
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