An estimated 80 percent of your brain and all of your body
are part of the huge subconscious mind. The first clue that someone is trying
to “love bomb” you or take advantage of you may be discomfort in some part of
your body or your brain becomes anxious when you think about that person or
their behavior. Perhaps you get a tightening in your gut when thinking about
doing what they are asking you to do or about their behaviors to you—such as
tracking where you are likely to be at any given time on a specific day. When
this happens, pause and ask yourself: “What is my body trying to tell me?” For
example, when I was consulting for Youth Authority and interacting with females
who had experienced “date rape,” almost to a person they would say, “You know,
I felt a bit uneasy or even queasy as I went to get into the car with this
person. However, I brushed it off and told myself, ]don’t be silly,
everything will be just fine’—only everything wasn’t just fine, as I soon found out.” The
brain and body take in at least 10,000 pieces of sensory data per second and
often pick up something that the person has missed at a conscious thought level.
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