Brains that catastrophize
tend to dwell on disappointment and disaster, filtering out all positives until
they seem to recognize only negatives. They tend to keep repeating whatever
they did before, which did not work, while hoping for a different outcome. Many
throw up their hands and refuse
to problem solve, period, believing they are helpless and everything in life is
beyond their capability. They often respond to helpful suggestions with:
Nah, that won’t work. They may stop trying to learn or
neglect to apply new information, convinced it won’t help anyway, or try blame
others in an effort to reduce some of their own discomfort. Since they
rarely are open to trying other options, they may miss opportunities that do
exist, thus becoming their own
worst enemy. Remember the
words attributed to Winston S. Churchill, reportedly a bit of a worrier
himself: “When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the
old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life,
most of which had never happened.
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