Random Act of Kindness & Narcissism

 

Is it wise to do random acts of kindness for someone with narcissistic behaviors?

 I believe in random acts of kindness and do them every chance I get. It’s one thing to voluntarily do a random act of kindness, it’s another to spend your time dancing to someone else’s needy tune--or as the old proverb goes, avoid throwing your pearls to swine. The “time” requirements tend to increase dramatically along with acting out when you set your boundaries. No relationship is 100% functional and affirming all the time. Sometimes you give more, sometimes they do. There needs to be a balance, however, over time. If you are your friend’s primary resource or they get your attention through bad behavior or unwise choices or by pestering your spouse or child, rethink the relationship. Relationships that are not healthy and reciprocal are like a mild headache that you try to ignore but that somehow escalates into a major migraine on a regular basis. 

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