Yes, it can. Intuition,
used properly, may trigger brain or body clues. Does your body give you clues when you are around a specific
individual? Does your stomach tighten if you see their phone number showing on
an incoming call? Do they put you
down unless you go along with whatever they want to do? Do they criticize you
to others (sometimes under the guise of ‘wanting to help you’ or to ‘resolve an
issue that is in their minds only’? Do they blame you, which is an attempt to
justify their behavior and feel better about their choices? Are they targeting
you with “love bombing, but which requires that you do whatever they want you
to do with them? Hone your intuition. It is a built-in safety mechanism in the
brain. Pay attention to it. If you sense something isn’t ‘right’ or ‘safe’
about the relationship, protect yourself. This may mean ending all contact with
the individual. You may want to access the Relationship Evaluation
on my website to give you some clues (https://www.arlenetaylor.org/resources/assessments)
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