Do you exhibit
a consistent can-do positive mindset with a habit of positive communication
with yourself as well as with others? Are you disrespectful or catty? Truthful
or dishonest? Do you say thinks behind the other person’s back that you would
not say carefully in front of them? Perhaps you discover that the other person
is saying negative
things about you to others. Does that person blame you and others for what
he/she perceives is not going well? Blame is an attempt to displace personal
discomfort onto another person. It never solves problems. It just encourages
you to avoid taking responsibility for your part in any discord and perpetuates
the problems. Do you affirm
others but receiving affirmation only when you follow their script and give in
to their desires? If so, take a closer look at that relationship. More
tomorrow.
Note: You may want to access the Relationship
Evaluation on my website (www.arlenetaylor.org) under
Assessments on the home page.
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