1.
Identify the loss and the pain of sadness. Loss
is part and parcel of being human and need not signal the end of life as the
child knows it. Appropriate grieving and recovery gives the child hope for the
future and shows that it is possible for life to continue bringing memories
along with it (e.g., carry the memories of the person you love in your heart
and mind)
2. Verbalize calmly and appropriately “My heart is so-sad . . . “ or “My heart
hurts because . . . “
3. Be congruent: Exhibit a sad expression. This may or may not include tears. Avoid sobbing
and hysteria, which can frighten a child. Avoid prolonged periods of
sadness—get help to resolve this as needed. Children need a happy childhood.
Doses of reality will definitely be there as circumstances arise—but they should never be
allowed to destroy the joys of childhood.)
4. Exhibit appropriate actions: This will depend on the type of loss. The goal is to move through
recovery and embrace living a full life in a timely manner, retaining memories
but letting go the sting of the loss. More
tomorrow.
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