Work on raising you level of EQ. The higher your EQ the less likely it is that a rejection will throw you for a complete loop. It may be initially painful. However, realize that rejection is more about those doing the rejecting than it is about you—unless you have been confrontational—and you can more quickly move forward rather than wallowing in pain to the point of immobility or in making knee-jerk and often unwise decisions. Estimates are that at least 50 percent of the problems most people experience in life are of their own making. As your EQ rises and your wisdom increases, you can work on dumping the problems that you create (often unwittingly). Know that you are capable of love and of being loved. To reinforce that, spend time with individuals who accept you just as you are and who love and care for you. When you find those individuals, consciously build those relationships. They can be invaluable for both of you. Some may even last for a lifetime. . .
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